| The inner-city community
of Riverton in Kingston is an example of the Jamaica that tourists
rarely get to see. When looking up Riverton in a travel guide
one will usually find an explicit warning to avoid this area at
all times for safety reasons.
Riverton is a community situated on the Kingston garbage dump.
The piles of garbage are source of livelihood to many of the roughly
5000 people who live in small huts made from corrugated metal
found amongst the garbage. Poverty is widespread and rates of
crime and teenage pregnancy are high. At times, even the police
have refused to go into Riverton, and much of the governance in
the community occurs through gangs under the auspices of “dons”
who gain power through violence. Social services in Riverton are
non-existent and social problems omnipresent.
A Canadian student of Psychology and Philosophy, I visited Riverton
for the first time in 2003. During that visit it became apparent
that there was a desperate need for social services in Riverton
and that these services could be provided within the framework
of a family center. A parenting program and a resource library
were especially needed in this community, where parents as young
as fourteen are faced with many unique challenges. Subsequently,
I along with two Canadian teachers and the principal of the Riverton
Early Childhood Center spent part of this summer setting up a
family center in Riverton, so as to fill that void.
Finding an appropriate program for this seminar had been a challenge
since many of the concerns of parents in North America do not
apply in the Riverton context. Discipline problems such as getting
children to clean up their room or eat their dinner are simply
non-issues in a community where people live in one-room shacks
and food is scarce. After extensive research and evaluations of
many programs, the Successful
Parenting series from Active Parenting Publishers emerged
as the most suitable for this purpose. The topics it covered were
ones that the people of Riverton would find helpful.
In the Successful Parenting series, the videos are culturally
neutral, offering basic suggestions and explanations for issues
that are universally applicable in any context. The use of experts
and actors from a variety of different cultural backgrounds made
the program easier to relate to for an international audience.
We approached Day One of the parenting workshop confident about
the program we had planned. The plan was to have separate sessions
for males and females with ten participants each. We were quickly
reminded that flexibility is necessary in Riverton, when males
and females arrived together, explaining that the females would
not come if the males were not there with them. Instead of the
ten young girls that we were expecting, there were nineteen males
and females that ranged in age from fourteen to thirty-eight.
It turned out more community members were interested in the course
than we thought. Another unexpected group joined the workshop
as well: women brought their children with them. Fortunately,
the school principal brought us building blocks and a blanket
that the children can sit on and play. We adjusted to the changed
circumstances; handed out binders with handouts and nametags and
started the discussion.
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Each session of an hour was to consist
of an introductory discussion question, the video and follow-up
discussion questions. The value of the videos quickly became apparent
on the first day. During the discussion, it had been hard to capture
the attention of some of the younger participants of the program
and participation was limited. The video seemed to provide a welcome
break and was attentively watched by all participants. The discussion
that followed was livelier. Informal discussion over refreshments
was also vital in creating a more relaxed atmosphere.
The second day of the program, which was to deal with the topic
of effective communication, also truly was a breakthrough in communication.
The community nurse joined the program that day, providing a bridge
between the two cultures as someone who the community trusts.
Not only was she able to help out when the Jamaican patois was
hard for us to understand, but her presence also made participants
more comfortable.
Each day of the program, the discussions became more interactive.
The parents’ concerns were identical to the ideas of most
parents anywhere: for the children to stay out of trouble, get
a good education and become happy. The only difference lay in
the difficulty that providing for such a future poses to parents,
since education is costly and opportunities for children to get
into trouble are plenty.

Throughout the program, positive feedback from the participants
was continuous. Community members such as the nurse, school principal
and teachers also affirmed that the program was well received.
The continuously high attendance further illustrated this, as
did the feedback forms we asked participants to complete on the
last day. “(From this program) I have learnt about self-esteem,
methods of disciplining your children and ways in which you can
communicate with your child. The videos were very helpful for
that” one 18-year-old mother wrote. Another participant’s
statement that “this program was very important” was
illustrated by what we soon learned about her: that she had closed
her little store for an hour every day to come to the program.
We left Riverton this time with a family center, with a resource
library, and most importantly with young parents who know more
about empowering and raising their children than their own parents
did. We also gained a better understanding of the community ourselves.
There’s much work left to be done in Riverton. A counselor,
facilitator and expanded programs are needed. Riverton’s
social problems are complex and will not be solved through one
program or in one summer. Yet, the Riverton family center is proof
of what is possible with some work in Riverton: a year ago there
was no family center, just a school principal with an idea and
a few Canadians who wanted to make it happen. A year later the
Riverton family center exists ready to be expanded to meet the
needs of this community.
Nathalie Lovasz is a Psychology student
at Wilfrid Laurier University in Waterloo, Ontario, Canada. For
more information on the Riverton Family Center Initiative visit
www.rivertonfamilycenter.org
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